A Thanksgiving To-Do List

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Whether traveling, hosting, driving across town to the folks’, or volunteering at a Thanksgiving outreach, most of the women I know have extra responsibilities this week that they do not have every other week of the year.

Some will glide through them; others will trek step after step uphill not really sure if they can reach the top and see what is beyond this week’s to-do list.

On Sunday morning Mr. John Richard read from God’s word in our devotional before Sunday School. I have told you before how I love to hear him pray. He reads God’s word well, too. Really I like to hear anything that comes out of his mouth because his words are so wise and calming and never, ever hurried. It’s like he read Ephesians 4:29 and took it to heart:

Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth,
but only such a word as is good for edification
according to the need of the moment,
so that it will give grace to those who hear.
Ephesians 4:29

His passage yesterday was from 1 Peter.  For the first time, I was struck by how much these words are just what we women need to hear in order to live the week of Thanksgiving well. Imagine Thanksgiving gatherings with your children, your husband, your Aunt Susie, and everyone else. Read slowly through this passage and as you do, imagine the gatherings you anticipate this week and imagine yourself following these teachings:

Above all, keep fervent in your love for one another,
because love covers a multitude of sins.
Be hospitable to one another without complaint.
As each one has received a special gift, employ it in serving one another
as good stewards of the manifold grace of God.
Whoever speaks, is to do so as one who is speaking the utterances of God;
whoever serves is to do so as one who is serving
by the strength which God supplies;
so that in all things God may be glorified through Jesus Christ, to whom belongs the glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen.
1 Peter 4:8-11


Sounds like a Thanksgiving to-do list to me.

  1. Fervently love my husband, children, and every relative I see (while being thankful they are in my life this week).
  2. Make my guests feel that I am thrilled they are here (or if I am a guest, make my hostess feel that I am thrilled to be there).
  3. Use my special gifts to serve wherever I am this week.
  4. Speak as if I am saying God’s words.
  5. Serve by the strength God supplies.

And while you are doing this, go ahead and treat Thanksgiving as part of your children’s education instead of a time-gulping interruption.

Devote yourselves to prayer,
keeping alert in it with an attitude of thanksgiving.
Colossians 4:2





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  1. A great portion of our pastor’s sermon yesterday was about filtering our words. And then the first thoughtful thing i read today was your post. I will be taking this to heart, looking forward to the opportunities are coming my way to speak carefully, with life and love in my words. 🙂

    Thank you for being a consistant source of encouragement! I often read your post in my email as i am preparing for our day, and it never fails to bring a smile or a thoughtful refletion on something dwelling in my heart that i couldn’t quite put into words. It is a gnerous blessing; thank you for the time you spend on each one. Have a very blessed, very happy Thanksgiving!

    • Thank you, Tonya, for your encouraging response to today’s blog post. It meant a great deal to me. You are most welcome. I hope your Thanksgiving is a wonderful blessing.

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